Church Teaching on Being a Child of an Irregular Situation

Every human soul is of more value than the entire universe put together, and each person is created in the image and likeness of God. No human being can escape the loving gaze of God, no matter what the circumstances of his or her origin. No Catholic, and no person, should ever deem oneself of lesser value if he or she comes from an “irregular” situation, for God sees all, knows all, loves all, and desires to save all (1 Timothy 2:3-4).

Jesus Makes Us Whole

I have heard divorce described as an “ontological wound,” a wound at the very core of our identity. Our parents who created us divide, and so we in turn feel divided. This is certainly strong language, but I think it puts a finger on the intimate and vulnerable wound experienced by adult children of divorce. The pain of the wound can lead us to cry out to God for healing.

Our wish list for the Synod on Synodality and the Vatican’s upcoming document on divorced-and-remarried Catholics

We are privileged every day to walk alongside men and women seeking healing from the myriad ways their parents’ split has affected them and, keeping all ACODs close to our hearts, we wanted to share a “wish-list” for what we would love to see included both at the Synod and in the Vatican document.